If I could do it again

I would definitely marry the same fella and most definitely would have the exact same three beautiful children I have. But if there was one thing I could change? I would've waiting to have children. 3-5 years I would have held off to have my 3 precious children. But I can't go back and change it and that's alright. But man if I could I most definitely would. I feel like the church pushes you into having children. you must not hold off! You must have kids now to bring gods plan to pass! No I'm sorry but that's wrong very wrong. if you hold off for selfish reasons that's one thing but being rushed into marriage and babies its not right and its not smart. I love my family.I love my husband. i love my children eternally and unconditionally.